Being a Certified Lover Girl or Boy™ is not easy. Especially in this world—the so-called 3D world—if you want to be a spiritual gal. Full of temptation, easy fixes, superficial connections, fast food, and fast love.
I’m talking about the type of “love” that lasts for three months, includes a few “good morning, beautiful” texts, stalking social media non-stop, and—if you’re carrying a lot of trauma—sex that (if you’re lucky enough) at least satisfies your hunger for the time being.
You know what I’m talking about. You’ve seen it in movies, read about it in books, heard about it in songs, and most probably… experienced some form of it.
Love.
We all have a definition of it… but do we really know what it is? How is it supposed to feel?
I’m talking about the real deal. The True Love that everyone is looking for… but for reasons unknown, most people never get to experience.
Why, you ask? Because they’re not ready yet. Because their souls chose not to—before they came to Earth, when they were choosing their purpose… when they signed the contract deciding whether they’d awaken in this lifetime or not.
And yes… love and awakening are connected. In every way imaginable.
I know. It sounds crazy… but stay with me. I’m giving context for my own love story, and hopefully, by the end, you’ll realize why I’ve been blabbering about reincarnation and soul contracts.
Back to what True Love actually is… and why it doesn’t happen for most people: it’s because what most people think love is… is just some form of trauma bond, co-dependent partnership, or a karmic relationship.
Everyone will experience at least one of these in their lifetime, for various reasons.
That reason most often being: a karmic lesson. As in, you meet that person you were truly meant to meet, you trauma bond, you feel this emotional high that you swear is love… But it’s not.
A trauma bond sounds horrible… and it kind of is. But really, it’s just people connecting through their childhood traumas and attachment wounds, and calling it love. The emotional highs and lows they feel? Just trauma responses. A constant chase for validation from the other person they think will fulfil them.
Because they believe they need that person to make them happy. To make them whole.
But most often, that need is just another wound. A lack of self-worth. A fear of abandonment.
We all have these wounds. It’s unavoidable to grow up without them, because this world isn’t perfect, and our parents weren’t perfect either. And the relationships we experienced throughout our childhood are what we bring into our future partnerships.
And that’s one of the biggest problems, isn’t it?
That most of our childhoods were not picture-perfect. We gained invisible wounds and learned to accept the love we think we deserve. And then, we meet someone who reflects that love back to us—that imperfect, conditional kind.
The one that makes you settle, because it’s good enough. The one that makes you smile, makes you cry, makes you think: “This is as good as it gets.” The one that is comfortable…
Until you meet someone who comes crashing into your delicate little world and makes you realize: “This is not good enough anymore. I want more.”
That’s what happened to me. And that’s the story I’m ready to share with those of you who are interested.
How I met that person, and how he changed my life, by burning it to the ground. And why this love is still more real than any I’ve ever felt before.
And again, it’s hard to be a Certified Lover Girl or Boy™ in this world. But if you meet the right person, they’ll make it easy. So easy.
If you want to learn about true, divine love… Stay with me. I promise you’ll walk away with a new perspective on life and love.
Blessings,
Diana.